Sunday, May 4, 2014
The Continued Pursuit of Close to Perfection
This year I have made the focus of working on myself. I can say for the past few months I have really had the opportunity to work on my relationship with God. This journey has allowed me to learn about myself, and myself in relation to others. I have worked on joining my church (Shout out to Bridgeway !) and I was even baptized. But through this all, in my continued pursuit of close to perfection (close to, because no human is perfect), I realized that I need to begin working on my body as well.
It has been said that the body is a temple. If my body is a temple chicken wings, pizza, and french fries are at the center of my worship lol. In all seriousness, I don't think spirituality and becoming a better person can be separated from the way that we treat our bodies. If I am not both mentally, physically, and spiritually fit I will never be able to carry out my purpose to help others. If I am in bad health how will I take care of my mom?
The past month I spent meditating on these thoughts. I gave up fried foods for lent. It might sound easy for some, but you don't realize just how many things are fried until you can't eat them. Without the fried foods I was forced to make different decisions and I was happy about it. But I didn't want to stop there.
I know this next thing I am about to say it is not going to be well-received. So please don't throw daggers until you hear me out. I want to get married one day. And I truly believe that by looking, and more importantly feeling like this I won't find the right person. Don't get me wrong, I think that everyone has their own preferences and marriages are not just about looks, obviously. However, for me, and for me only, I love myself but I love myself to know that physically I am not where I want to be. And because I am not where I want to be I am not shining how I could be. Let me clarify. I do NOT want to watch my weight and exercise in order to attract a husband. I want to do all of those things in order for me to be happier with myself. And because I am content with myself then I will naturally attract the man who is right for me.
I want to feel good inside and out. I plan on being around for many years to come. I don't want my last few years on this earth to be miserable because of the bad choices I made now. I don't want to feel depressed when I shop for clothes. I want to go on a hike with my friends without being scared that I will walk too slow or that I will start wheezing and slowing down and then everyone else won't enjoy their own experience. I might never be able to run a marathon but I want to be able to do what makes me happy without my body holding me back.
Yesterday I joined Weight Watchers!!!! This is not my first time on the program. In fact I was on the program a few years ago and lost 70 lbs! I didn't stop because I didn't love the program, I stopped because I needed to cut costs and I figured that would be an easy way to do it. If I knew I would be where I am now I would have never quit. However, I am back now. Sure I don't really have the money for it, but I figure my health is too important to ignore any longer. Health problems run on both sides of my family and after this week it became more evident to me that I need to make a true commitment to taking the best care of myself.
So here I am. I put it out there. I have you and Weight Watchers to keep my accountable. If anyone else is interested in making some lifestyle changes with me let me know. I would love to have some accountability partners in the mist of this journey!