I just finished watching a video of man verbally and then physically assault an elderly couple on a bus. Fortunately, when his assault became physical the several members of the bus rallied together to literally kick the man off of the bus. Senseless.
I write this post through drying tears. Sometimes I am just saddened beyond words how people treat each other. People practically look at me as if I were a saint when I hold the door for others. I was always raised to be kind to the sick, elderly, and pregnant. I was always taught to be nice to everyone. My faith has ingrained within me message of loving my neighbors because Jesus loves me.
When I see videos like I did today or yet another murder in the city, I feel this overwhelming sense of disappointment. I wonder when did we get to his point. How did we stray so far from the ideal that "it takes a village"? More importantly, I contemplate if we will ever get back to the way we used to be.
I am not a blind idealist. I know that "back in the day" was not always some land of optimism and pleasantries. This country has had a history of treating people as less than human. But that is not the point I mean to make today.
So what is the point? When did we stop caring for each other? When did it become ok to curse out elderly people on the bus? Even more, why is it ok to shoot a video of someone attacking an elderly couple on a bus and the laugh in the background when the attacker is getting attacked himself. Why do we laugh at videos of children fighting each other? Why do we glorify violence on the "reality" shows that we love so much? When did please and thank you become optional sayings? What has sparked this meanness, this violence? And is it all just the beginning of the end?
It makes me glad that I don't have kids. It makes me even happier that I don't want kids. I cannot begin to imagine how parents are able to navigate the circumstances of today when raising children.
I guess all I can do is continue to behave how my parents taught me. Maybe if there are enough of us that set positive examples to others that I will never see another senseless video like I saw today.