I have an issue and I am wondering if anyone else has this problem. Somehow, almost overnight I have turned into a sex symbol. Ok, ok, don't choke. I am being serious though. Let me explain.
So as you recall I am single. My friends and I go out once and awhile to bar or lounge type of establishments. Me being the most going of the group I am always certain to strike up a conversation with at least one stranger during the course of the night. But recently I have noticed a disturbing trend, it seems like many of the men I talk to are interested in having sex with me and feel free to tell me this.
This trend asking me some questions. One, am I oozing in sex appeal? I mean I think I am fly, but I don't think anything really shouts out sex about me. I tend to be a pretty conservative dresser especially as I am getting older. While I have the ability to talk dirty, I tend to not do that with complete strangers! Two, are guys getting bolder? Maybe guys thinks it is ok for them to proposition me. I mean if this has happened to me on multiple occasions maybe it usually works for them. And as much as it is unnerving I do appreciate someone telling me upfront where their intentions are rather than have a few dates and waste our time. I also guess that maybe it is a compliment to me that they find me attractive? But it is also an anti-compliment when a guy does not offer me any respect when they see me as just some woman to have sex with and not a person that they could get to know on a non-physical level.
So does this happen to anyone else? Or is it just me? I am starting to lose hope. Are there single guys out there who might like to date me and treat me with respect in the process? Let me know!
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